Dynamics of Life

Throughout our life we come across people who are intended to be there in certain ways. At first you may never see it happening.. you may not understand why but it is there within the course of the friendship/relationship you are building something there.. trust, respect among other things feelings or emotions that can evolve if you let them. In many times the emotional attachment to the said person changes without you knowing it.. with just a sentence, a word or even an event. I do believe that people are suppose to be in your life for reason and that the emotions are there to help in your journey to learn as well as to see the sacrifice in which the other person selflessly gives and takes. Now there are some people in our lives who were honestly set in your way as a way to teach us what we should and shouldn't do. However these people can and will be a damage to yourself if you let them.

The great things about life is that it is always changing... friendships, partners children, family. It the constant change which i expect to happen. I may not like how somethings change, i may fight against it with everything i am... and i have learned that it just makes things worse. It doesn't allow me to embrace the change and the new dynamic of the relationship.

Now there is something that i find funny... MEN don't like change... but it is men who create the change most of all. In my experience it is the men that change the dynamics of a relationship. Now i am not saying that it is all men, it is women too. However, the majority of the time Men unconsciously changes the dynamics of certain things or they just do it.

Now i know you are probably saying.. Now wait a sec i had a ex that changed the relationship or i had a female friend that tried to go after me.
Well let me ask you this what did you do that made them want to change the dynamics of the relationship. Ever ask your self that. Ever look in the mirror and say to yourself what did i say or do to change the relationship? yeah that's right i asked it. HELLO!!!! MC FLY.... YOU THERE. Yes i am talking to you.now repeat after me.. WHAT DID I DO TO CHANGE IT?

Now ask your self this... Do I want the change? Will things get better?

Then there is the all time most hated question of all... Will this change make the relationship ceased to exist or will it fade.
In Certain times in our live we pray that they won't fade away or leave us. However, look on the bright side if the person didn't fade away then they were meant to be in your life for a long period.

I know in my life i have had a few good lasting friendships that have lasted over 16 years. As well as a few friendships that lasted for a few months. Everything changes for a reason. Everything happens for a reason.

A statement was made of I hope that there is someone i can be there for... Well have you ever thought that maybe the person sitting next to you on the train needs a little attention or the women who dropped her purse needs help.. You can be there for a reason for them on a daily basis. If we all keep to ourselves in life this world would the fucking boring and no ones need would be met. There is a song that i just love.. yes yes it is country but Reba McIntyre is no dummy when it comes to life itself...Oh did i hear that... I like Country music? Fuckers I live in a state that cowboys and Indians still play! Were Garth brooks comes home and retires for the 7th time.. What do you fucking think... it just can't be helped that the occasional country song reaches out to my heart. Now i am not saying that i like all of it... and do i dress in a cowboy hat and Rockies.. NO FUCK NO! I prefer heels and a hot sexy dress that forms to my body over that any day. Fuck this enough of me.. if you want to know more of me then fucking just ask..

It's called Somebody by Reba McIntyre look it up and read the lyrics whether you like country or not it doesn't matter.. don't listen the music just read the fucking lyrics. It is the Words that make the music not the song itself.

Your intended could be someone that is staring right in front of you and you never even looked, really looked to SEE them! Called it Kismet, Fate, Destiny.. what ever you want to call it.. but it is ever changing!

So will you change a person outlooks on a subject or just their day...but be helpful and fulfilling a temporary need or even a permanent need?


So Tell me.. What ARE YOU going to do with the new change in your life?